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« Reply #15 on: Mar 8th, 2004, 12:30pm »
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I hear you guys on the confidence and support issues of the significant other.  Also, Aaron makes me feel like I can do anything -- like I can be whatever I want to be.  It's very empowering to know that someone so special is on your side no matter what.  OK that was a little cheesy, and I'm sorry, but it's true!
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« Reply #16 on: Mar 10th, 2004, 9:17am »
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i completly agree casey, no matter how cheesey it sounds.. its really true... Smiley
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« Reply #17 on: Mar 11th, 2004, 1:28pm »
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I agree with th emushy stuff, but I hate it when people make drastic changes in their lives because of their significant other. I don't mean stuff like you stop drinking or you give up porn or that kind of thing. I mean like you just totally change who you are because of them. Thoughts?
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« Reply #18 on: Mar 11th, 2004, 1:30pm »
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Oh. By the way. Ashley really is a klepto. No joke. She'll deny it, but I deny being a liar too. I deny being a liar because I'm trying to reform myself. She denies being a klepto because she doesn't want to get caught.
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« Reply #19 on: Mar 11th, 2004, 1:52pm »
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i think you should stay true to who you are... or who you want to be.  sometimes though you are with someone and they make you see who you can be.  and you didn't know that you could do all of that.......  and i think if you can change or want to change and still be yourself than more power to you.
 
FOR EXAMPLE:  here is an example of a bad change.  i was going out with this guy and he wanted me to be different.   like i wasn't good enough for him.  but even my appearance wasn't good enough for him.  so i dyed my hair the color he wanted and i got color contacts the color he wanted.  i mean that just shows you the extent i changed for him.  in the end i woke and found out i was becoming someone that i HATED!!!  and after he dumped me.... i decided if someone didn't like me for me then screw them.  i love myself just the way i am.  with brown eyes and everything!!
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« Reply #20 on: Mar 11th, 2004, 2:07pm »
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Dude. You rock.
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« Reply #21 on: Mar 12th, 2004, 4:42am »
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what he said Smiley im glad that i love who i am, and my boyfriend thinks the same Smiley
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« Reply #22 on: Mar 12th, 2004, 7:33am »
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yay for brown eyes!
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« Reply #23 on: Mar 12th, 2004, 2:42pm »
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Smiley
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« Reply #24 on: Mar 12th, 2004, 3:00pm »
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   This section of the forum is totally for stuff just like this, getting advice, talking about whatever amongst ourselves.  Besides, this is way more interesting than talking about how hot all the guys in JS are...especially that bass player, yow!    
     After having a couple friends drastically alter their behavior after getting a GF or BF I certainly try to NOT change my behavior in wierd ways while in a relationship.  Times do change, and people do too, but fast drastic changes because of other people are a little odd to me.  That looks like sense of self is lacking, and that's what I want in a relationship, a rad person to hang out with, not mold (even on accident!)  -Aaron
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« Reply #25 on: Mar 12th, 2004, 5:17pm »
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But Aaron, I gave up meat for you!!!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Just kidding...but I did give it up for Lent. Wink
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« Reply #26 on: Mar 12th, 2004, 10:16pm »
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Really, as much as haveing someone can change you, so can not having someone.  If you're alone for a long enough period of time, it can have just as dramatic an effect on who you are.
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« Reply #27 on: Mar 13th, 2004, 6:41am »
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for andy: i think thats part of why ash used to be so feminazi because she was single for 3 years, and the few relationships she had wernt nessicarily the greatest...  
 
 
im not sure how ive been altered by my relationships, because i get a boyfriend, then they dump me after a few weeks... but i keep getting new ones... it kinda sucks to think that someone likes  you,then find out they dont anymore... but hopefully my newest relationship will be better (and it already is) Roll Eyes
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« Reply #28 on: Mar 15th, 2004, 11:35am »
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well, i suppose that since andy, my own brother, is too much of a coward to talk to me to my face about things he doesn't like about me, i'll follow his example and lower myself to his level.  "I thought this was a message board for the incredible band Jupiter Sunrise, not a high school gossip column?"  If any of you know me, i got really pissed off lately when a friend of mine came whining to me about a beef he had with one of my friends.  So I guess it's similar when my best friend in the world comes crying to all of my other friends instead of coming to me. It pisses me off.  Grow up.
 
Secondly, sure, I changed when I got together with Scott.  Because for me, getting together with scott was a very big life-changing event!  I was single for 3 years and finally found someone who wasn't going to lie to me, reject me, or string me along.  So excuse me if I fell for him, i'll try to stop doing that.  Andy, you of all people should know that when someone significant comes into your life your life changes.  When Kerry came into your life you changed.  When Kristine came into my life I changed.  When you meet really awesome people, sometimes you change.  When you enter into the best relationship you've ever been in in your life, things are going to change, dammit!  It's not like I changed around my entire life and priorities or anything.  Sure, some things changed.  I became more sentimental than cynical like i used to be, because i realized that things aren't as bad as i thought they were for all those years.  And yes, Andy, I suppose that it would seem you're just like the few of my shallow friends from high school who don't like me anymore because i'm dating a non-christian *gasp*  is that what it is?  Sure i don't believe in dating non-christians (in theory, but communism also looks good in theory)... I also don't believe in going to college but i'm there anyway.  i didn't change me at all.  Old Ashley is still here.  If you came to open mic night once in a while or ever saw me perform, you'd see the old ashley when i sing songs like Famous and Futility.  She's still there.  She just realized that everything wasn't so bad as it was.  Guess what.  Since I've been with scott, i've opened up my mind a lot more.  Maybe I have changed, but screw you if you can't see the good things that have happened since we got together.  Things change.  People change.  I'm not the same person I was a year ago.  I know 2 years ago, Scott sums up pretty much exactly what i never thought I'd be with because he's pretty much the opposite of my ideal guy--but my ideal doesn't exist.  So I grew up and realized that Scott makes me feel different than anyone else ever has--he makes me feel like i DON'T have to change who I am to be with him.  because every other guy in the world who i've met has made me want to change to be with him.  But scott loves me for who I am, regardless of what anyone else wants or expects.  There are things he doesn't like about me but he loves them anyway because they're parts of me.  So screw you andy, scott and i are in love.  if you can't understand that, grow the f**k
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« Reply #29 on: Mar 15th, 2004, 11:36am »
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In closing, this thread is ridiculous, and i'm sorry that andy brought it up on here instead of being straight with me and tell me to my face.  sorry you all had to put up with the sibling rivalry.
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